diff --git a/Cargo.lock b/Cargo.lock
index 0045c53..278fad1 100644
--- a/Cargo.lock
+++ b/Cargo.lock
@@ -85,6 +85,12 @@ version = "0.2.1"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "8d696c370c750c948ada61c69a0ee2cbbb9c50b1019ddb86d9317157a99c2cae"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "bumpalo"
+version = "3.6.1"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "63396b8a4b9de3f4fdfb320ab6080762242f66a8ef174c49d8e19b674db4cdbe"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "bytes"
 version = "1.0.1"
@@ -505,6 +511,15 @@ dependencies = [
  "minidom",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "js-sys"
+version = "0.3.49"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "dc15e39392125075f60c95ba416f5381ff6c3a948ff02ab12464715adf56c821"
+dependencies = [
+ "wasm-bindgen",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "keccak"
 version = "0.1.0"
@@ -705,15 +720,15 @@ checksum = "624a8340c38c1b80fd549087862da4ba43e08858af025b236e509b6649fc13d5"
 
 [[package]]
 name = "openssl"
-version = "0.10.32"
+version = "0.10.33"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "038d43985d1ddca7a9900630d8cd031b56e4794eecc2e9ea39dd17aa04399a70"
+checksum = "a61075b62a23fef5a29815de7536d940aa35ce96d18ce0cc5076272db678a577"
 dependencies = [
  "bitflags",
  "cfg-if 1.0.0",
  "foreign-types",
- "lazy_static",
  "libc",
+ "once_cell",
  "openssl-sys",
 ]
 
@@ -725,9 +740,9 @@ checksum = "77af24da69f9d9341038eba93a073b1fdaaa1b788221b00a69bce9e762cb32de"
 
 [[package]]
 name = "openssl-sys"
-version = "0.9.60"
+version = "0.9.61"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "921fc71883267538946025deffb622905ecad223c28efbfdef9bb59a0175f3e6"
+checksum = "313752393519e876837e09e1fa183ddef0be7735868dced3196f4472d536277f"
 dependencies = [
  "autocfg",
  "cc",
@@ -1034,6 +1049,21 @@ dependencies = [
  "quick-error",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "ring"
+version = "0.16.20"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "3053cf52e236a3ed746dfc745aa9cacf1b791d846bdaf412f60a8d7d6e17c8fc"
+dependencies = [
+ "cc",
+ "libc",
+ "once_cell",
+ "spin",
+ "untrusted",
+ "web-sys",
+ "winapi",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "rust-argon2"
 version = "0.8.3"
@@ -1055,6 +1085,19 @@ dependencies = [
  "semver",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "rustls"
+version = "0.19.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "064fd21ff87c6e87ed4506e68beb42459caa4a0e2eb144932e6776768556980b"
+dependencies = [
+ "base64",
+ "log",
+ "ring",
+ "sct",
+ "webpki",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "ryu"
 version = "1.0.5"
@@ -1092,10 +1135,20 @@ source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "d29ab0c6d3fc0ee92fe66e2d99f700eab17a8d57d1c1d3b748380fb20baa78cd"
 
 [[package]]
-name = "security-framework"
-version = "2.0.0"
+name = "sct"
+version = "0.6.0"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "c1759c2e3c8580017a484a7ac56d3abc5a6c1feadf88db2f3633f12ae4268c69"
+checksum = "e3042af939fca8c3453b7af0f1c66e533a15a86169e39de2657310ade8f98d3c"
+dependencies = [
+ "ring",
+ "untrusted",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "security-framework"
+version = "2.1.2"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "d493c5f39e02dfb062cd8f33301f90f9b13b650e8c1b1d0fd75c19dd64bff69d"
 dependencies = [
  "bitflags",
  "core-foundation",
@@ -1106,9 +1159,9 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "security-framework-sys"
-version = "2.0.0"
+version = "2.1.1"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "f99b9d5e26d2a71633cc4f2ebae7cc9f874044e0c351a27e17892d76dce5678b"
+checksum = "dee48cdde5ed250b0d3252818f646e174ab414036edb884dde62d80a3ac6082d"
 dependencies = [
  "core-foundation-sys",
  "libc",
@@ -1144,7 +1197,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "serde",
  "serde_derive",
  "tokio",
- "tokio-native-tls",
  "tokio-xmpp",
  "toml",
  "xmpp-parsers",
@@ -1248,6 +1300,12 @@ dependencies = [
  "winapi",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "spin"
+version = "0.5.2"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "6e63cff320ae2c57904679ba7cb63280a3dc4613885beafb148ee7bf9aa9042d"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "string_cache"
 version = "0.8.1"
@@ -1397,6 +1455,17 @@ dependencies = [
  "tokio",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "tokio-rustls"
+version = "0.22.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "bc6844de72e57df1980054b38be3a9f4702aba4858be64dd700181a8a6d0e1b6"
+dependencies = [
+ "rustls",
+ "tokio",
+ "webpki",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "tokio-stream"
 version = "0.1.5"
@@ -1425,8 +1494,7 @@ dependencies = [
 [[package]]
 name = "tokio-xmpp"
 version = "3.0.0"
-source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "56ac9ffb7a7e49d8efe6f9eb7e3d08385f50197d5202c226cd46ffb4f5231a39"
+source = "git+https://gitlab.com/moparisthebest/xmpp-rs.git?branch=main#6fc016c006487c64b61e9fead41856ea74bb5bc4"
 dependencies = [
  "bytes",
  "futures",
@@ -1437,10 +1505,13 @@ dependencies = [
  "sasl",
  "tokio",
  "tokio-native-tls",
+ "tokio-rustls",
  "tokio-stream",
  "tokio-util",
  "trust-dns-proto",
  "trust-dns-resolver",
+ "webpki",
+ "webpki-roots",
  "xml5ever",
  "xmpp-parsers",
 ]
@@ -1541,6 +1612,12 @@ version = "0.2.1"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "f7fe0bb3479651439c9112f72b6c505038574c9fbb575ed1bf3b797fa39dd564"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "untrusted"
+version = "0.7.1"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "a156c684c91ea7d62626509bce3cb4e1d9ed5c4d978f7b4352658f96a4c26b4a"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "url"
 version = "2.2.0"
@@ -1583,6 +1660,89 @@ version = "0.10.1+wasi-snapshot-preview1"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "93c6c3420963c5c64bca373b25e77acb562081b9bb4dd5bb864187742186cea9"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "wasm-bindgen"
+version = "0.2.72"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "8fe8f61dba8e5d645a4d8132dc7a0a66861ed5e1045d2c0ed940fab33bac0fbe"
+dependencies = [
+ "cfg-if 1.0.0",
+ "wasm-bindgen-macro",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "wasm-bindgen-backend"
+version = "0.2.72"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "046ceba58ff062da072c7cb4ba5b22a37f00a302483f7e2a6cdc18fedbdc1fd3"
+dependencies = [
+ "bumpalo",
+ "lazy_static",
+ "log",
+ "proc-macro2",
+ "quote",
+ "syn",
+ "wasm-bindgen-shared",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "wasm-bindgen-macro"
+version = "0.2.72"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "0ef9aa01d36cda046f797c57959ff5f3c615c9cc63997a8d545831ec7976819b"
+dependencies = [
+ "quote",
+ "wasm-bindgen-macro-support",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "wasm-bindgen-macro-support"
+version = "0.2.72"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "96eb45c1b2ee33545a813a92dbb53856418bf7eb54ab34f7f7ff1448a5b3735d"
+dependencies = [
+ "proc-macro2",
+ "quote",
+ "syn",
+ "wasm-bindgen-backend",
+ "wasm-bindgen-shared",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "wasm-bindgen-shared"
+version = "0.2.72"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "b7148f4696fb4960a346eaa60bbfb42a1ac4ebba21f750f75fc1375b098d5ffa"
+
+[[package]]
+name = "web-sys"
+version = "0.3.49"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "59fe19d70f5dacc03f6e46777213facae5ac3801575d56ca6cbd4c93dcd12310"
+dependencies = [
+ "js-sys",
+ "wasm-bindgen",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "webpki"
+version = "0.21.4"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "b8e38c0608262c46d4a56202ebabdeb094cef7e560ca7a226c6bf055188aa4ea"
+dependencies = [
+ "ring",
+ "untrusted",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "webpki-roots"
+version = "0.21.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "82015b7e0b8bad8185994674a13a93306bea76cf5a16c5a181382fd3a5ec2376"
+dependencies = [
+ "webpki",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "widestring"
 version = "0.4.3"
diff --git a/Cargo.toml b/Cargo.toml
index e4c1833..42c5d47 100644
--- a/Cargo.toml
+++ b/Cargo.toml
@@ -26,10 +26,13 @@ serde = { version = "1.0", features = ["derive"] }
 gumdrop = "0.8.0"
 gumdrop_derive = "0.8.0"
 dirs = "3.0.1"
-tokio-xmpp = "3.0.0"
+tokio-xmpp = { git = "https://gitlab.com/moparisthebest/xmpp-rs.git", branch = "main", default-features = false }
 tokio = { version = "1", features = ["net", "rt", "rt-multi-thread", "macros", "io-util", "io-std"] }
-tokio-tls = { package = "tokio-native-tls", version = "0.3" }
 xmpp-parsers = "0.18"
 die = "0.2.0"
 anyhow = "1.0"
 
+[features]
+default = ["tls-rust"]
+tls-rust = ["tokio-xmpp/tls-rust"]
+tls-native = ["tokio-xmpp/tls-native"]
diff --git a/src/main.rs b/src/main.rs
index 659e0c1..1e5de70 100644
--- a/src/main.rs
+++ b/src/main.rs
@@ -9,13 +9,12 @@ use gumdrop::Options;
 use serde_derive::Deserialize;
 
 use std::process::{Command, Stdio};
-use tokio_xmpp::{xmpp_stream, SimpleClient as Client};
+use tokio_xmpp::SimpleClient as Client;
 use xmpp_parsers::message::{Body, Message};
 use xmpp_parsers::presence::{Presence, Show as PresenceShow, Type as PresenceType};
 use xmpp_parsers::{Element, Jid};
 
 use tokio::io::{AsyncReadExt, AsyncWriteExt};
-use tokio_tls::TlsStream;
 
 use anyhow::{anyhow, bail, Result};
 
@@ -101,11 +100,8 @@ async fn main() {
 
         // can paste this to test: <message xmlns="jabber:client" to="travis@burtrum.org" type="chat"><body>woot</body></message>
 
-        pub struct OpenClient {
-            pub stream: xmpp_stream::XMPPStream<TlsStream<tokio::net::TcpStream>>,
-        }
-        let client: OpenClient = unsafe { std::mem::transmute(client) };
-        let mut open_client = client.stream.stream.try_lock().die("could not lock client stream");
+        let client = client.into_inner();
+        let mut open_client = client.stream.try_lock().die("could not lock client stream");
         let open_client = open_client.get_mut();
 
         let mut rd_buf = [0u8; 256]; // todo: proper buffer size?