More connection cache accesses are protected by locks.
CONNCACHE_* is a beter prefix for the connection cache lock macros.
Curl_attach_connnection: now called as soon as there's a connection
struct available and before the connection is added to the connection
cache.
Curl_disconnect: now assumes that the connection is already removed from
the connection cache.
Ref: #4915Closes#5009
We use "conn" everywhere to be a pointer to the connection.
Introduces two functions that "attaches" and "detaches" the connection
to and from the transfer.
Going forward, we should favour using "data->conn" (since a transfer
always only has a single connection or none at all) to "conn->data"
(since a connection can have none, one or many transfers associated with
it and updating conn->data to be correct is error prone and a frequent
reason for internal issues).
Closes#3442
